An autistic child in a family is the cause of diverse reactions from the supportive feelings of family member to those of disgust and disappointment from many people. A family member may scold the autistic child. The child may be unfairly looked at. The family member may insist that the autistic child be treated like other children though it is unsuitable. These things are not receptive to the relative or to the autistic child or situation. As a parent, be ready to face the situation.
Unreceptive relatives cannot comprehend what autism is and what it means to the child and your family? Though many perceive autism as mental retardation, many autistic children and adults re extremely intelligent but unfortunately incapable of expressing it like others. Explain to this hostile family member what autism is and let him spend some time with the autistic child. Let them observe the effects of autism and what methods you use to cope with it.
If the family member is still hostile and unreceptive, unsupportive and does not accept your explanation, ask him why he is so adamant. Is he scared of the child being hurt or worried about spending time with the autistic child or do they feel guilty and embarrassed. Granting that you know why the relative is unreceptive you can tackle the issue and help him manage the problem.
If the family member is prejudiced and adamant no amount of your explanation, talking or spending time together will help him. If he is stubborn and preconceived in his mind you can never make him realize how beautiful your son or daughter is with all autism. It is rather difficult to get rid of this person from your life.
But both you and your child will be free from that person’s negative energy and personality. At this juncture you require the best positive support from the other family members and the adjustment of other children that offers you the source of strength. Participate in parent support groups for autistic children by strengthening your support network. See that you are around those who do love and accept your child family.
